Your Weekly Checkup: Preparing for Death

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Now that I’ve entered the third quarter of the game of life, I’ve often wondered how long I’ll live. It’s not a thought I considered during the first half. Since 1900, the average life expectancy around the globe has more than doubled, largely due to better public health, sanitation, and food supplies, and now approaches 80 years in most developed countries. Ten years ago, the oldest human being on the planet died at age 122. But is that a likely age for the rest of us? Probably not, yet more and more people are living to become centenarians. Genetic studies are analyzing how and why that happens, and ultimately we may be able to add years to our lives.

Regardless, it’s a given that we’re all going to die sometime, and most of us are unprepared for it. My wife and I came close three months ago in Muenster, Germany, when a suicide van plowed into the outdoor café where we were enjoying an afternoon beverage. Sitting two tables away from the van’s path and the human carnage it created made me realize how precious and fragile our lives are, and how one’s fate can turn on a dime. It’s important we not leave loved ones to grapple with residua of our messy lives, even as they wrestle with their own grief at our passing.

It may not be a pleasant topic, but here are some issues to consider so that your passing is as easy as possible for those who outlive you.

Attending to these issues will help ensure you will rest in peace — or at least your loved ones will.